i dont care if u never listen to me ever again just let me be ur internet dad for just one second: dont start cutting yourselves please ever
ok im gonna reblog this again bc i want more ppl to see it?? ive compiled a (by no means complete) list of the things u can expect if u start:
– u cant stop. its a legitimate addiction. there is no ‘seeing what its like’. its soso hard to stop it and believe me, because that was me. i thought i would sate my curiosity but all i did was make my life miserable – everything can become a trigger. someone carved things in a table?? trigger. u get a scratch by accident?? trigger. see something sharp?? yup. – the scars dont go away and if people see them (and no matter how hard you try, people will see them) they get this awful fucking look on their face like a mixture of disgust and horror and pity – u have to sit through people making shitty fucking jokes and calling people like you (real, struggling people like you) edgy emos looking for attention and it makes you feel sick but you have to sit there silently – in fact, any conversation about self harm becomes thoroughly uncomfortable because they’ll talk about it like no one in the room has ever gone through it (or, if they know, they’ll glance at you out the corner of their eye when they think you cant see) – any emotion can give you the urges- not just negative. ur body associates the happy feeling with the pain so ur brain is like ‘????? u cant have one without the other??’ – it can have been years. years. you can have stopped and got better and you’ll still feel the urge to hurt yourself and it makes you feel like you haven’t improved at all and you’re still fourteen and hating yourself – (maybe this is just me) but some part of you misses it?? you stopped and you know its horrific but its so difficult to get rid of your blades or whatever you use because you feel so weirdly attached to these things that are so awful and you dont even know why
god damn i just want yall to understand that you dont have to hurt yourself ever, okay?? just. don’t. trust me.
I will reblog this every single day.
Its a bit too late for me, but not for someone else. Please don’t do it. Its a dumb thing to do and you will regret it.
I will never hesitate to reblog this
This is why I promised myself I’d never self harm. This post, right here. I hope it helps others make the same promise.
seriously, if you’re thinking of starting…don’t.
This applies to other forms of purposeful self harm too. I never cut but I bruised myself, gave myself minor burns, bit, scratched, and deprived myself of sleep and food or got too much sleep or food. Forms of harm that don’t leave physical scars forever but have similar mental effects.
It’s been roughly four years since I quit and I still get the urge to bite my hands and slam myself into door frames whenever I feel the slightest bit self conscious, sad, or anxious. Which is a lot of the time. I have to be careful scratching an itch or choosing reasons to stay up late or making decisions about eating. The slight calm numb feeling you get isn’t nearly worth it and yet you end up craving it anyways. It feels like an easy way out even though ultimately it’s causing way more harm than good.
Just don’t do it. Ever.
This is so real. I’ve stopped for two years and had a rough night and nearly gave in to my urges to cut myself. Again. After two years.
thank you so so much op for making this because this is one of the most honest and important things i’ve ever seen on here. there is literally no way to stress this enough, any of it. trying to resolve one moment of anger or sadness or self-hate by condemning yourself to a lifetime of never being able to fully cover is NOT worth it. most people know self-harming is bad and dangerous and unhealthy, but they don’t seem to know this stuff about it. any addiction is a life sentence, and sometimes it only takes once. please don’t do this to yourself.
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are you fucking serious this entire post is god tier
I lay awake at night dreading the day when a very potter musical is no longer outrageously funny to people because they don’t understand all of the painfully 2009 cultural references that are made
Isn’t this what happened to Shakespeare
Future editions of AVPM will have a footnote explaining who Zac Efron was.
You’ve probably seen some fanarts from @eliciadonze . She’s been getting a lot of hate from this fandom for years. Slurs, death and rape threats, victim blaming, everything you can imagine.
And this every single day, no matter what she did. Because it’s not really about who she is or what she draws. She never did anything wrong. It’s about people being cruel and/or jealous, and especially about people and this fandom in general feeling entitled. Because after all, everyone else does it. After all, she should just shut up about it. After all, you’re just telling her what to do, you know better, it’s not hate but advice.
The entitlement in the so called “spn family” is huge. And the hypocrisy : reblogging Jared’s mental health related stuff, buying “you’re not alone” shirts but not giving a fuck about an artist getting PTSD because of us.
This fandom is attempting to kill her. This is happening right now.
It’s tempting to just leave this fandom which, as Elicia said, cares more about 3 fictional guys than a real person. But it’s the easy way out. Less guilt, but no help.
So, if you’ve ever appreciated Elicia’s art, stand up for her. Spread the word that anyone who has an issue with her isn’t welcome on your blog. That you don’t want them to share what you create or reblog. Write it in brakets underneath your fanarts, your gifs, your fanfics. Message famous blogs, try to make them react. Ask your mutuals about Elicia, block them if they frown. Also go buy her a Ko-Fi if you can’t commission, because the hate is also ruining her career.
And speaking about this is not “ruining the mood of the fandom”. Anyone displeased by seeing people standing up for Elicia shouldn’t be welcome in this fandom anyway.
I need 10,000 more of these public posts.
Finally someone said it
send this poor girl some love. what do you think jensen, jared, misha or any of the rest of the cast would say if they knew the type of behavior that goes on behind the scenes in this fandom? this is appalling. people need to grow up and treat human beings with respect. stop being toxic!
New concept: Lets support all trans people and not just the ones we find attractive.
oh big mood
Large. Fucking. Mood. You can’t consider yourself an ally if you just support hot trans people. That’s just being a fetishist. Your ability to pass or even just your general looks hold no bearing on your right for human love and support.
Also another dandy concept don’t misgender or deadname a trans person just because you don’t like them.